A heartbroken father says his wife might still be alive if an ambulance had reached their home sooner — after the 39-year-old mother of five suffered a sudden heart attack and waited roughly 80 minutes for emergency help.
Michelle Roberts, of Bedfordshire, England, was home with her children in October 2024 when she suddenly began feeling a burning sensation in her chest and throat.
At first, neither Michelle nor her husband, Ben Roberts, realized how serious the symptoms were.
Michelle called Ben before contacting the U.K.’s non-emergency 111 service. By the time Ben, 43, arrived home, his wife was still speaking with the operator and was eventually told an ambulance would be sent.
“She told me to get a bag ready for her and she asked me to go and feed the kids as she hadn’t been able to get out of bed,” Ben told Southwest News Service.
Then came the chilling final words he remembers hearing from his wife.
“Ben, I’m scared.”
Ben went downstairs to prepare food for their children while waiting for paramedics to arrive. About 30 minutes later, with still no ambulance outside, he went back upstairs to check on Michelle.
He found her slumped on the bed and no longer breathing.
“I was checking the door, and no one was arriving,” Ben recalled. “I went upstairs to tell her they hadn’t arrived and that’s when I found her slumped and not breathing.”
Ben immediately called 999, Britain’s emergency number, and began performing CPR.
What followed was a nightmare.
Ben said he desperately tried to revive his wife for nearly an hour as their terrified children watched.
During the frantic effort, he said blood began coming from Michelle’s eyes, ears and mouth.
“They’re crying and they don’t know what’s going on now,” he said of the children.
Eventually, a first responder arrived.
Ben claimed the responder showed little urgency when entering the home, though several ambulances and police officers arrived just minutes later.
“He took over and within about two or three minutes, four ambulances turned up, seven police officers, it was jam packed,” Ben said. “But it was far too late.”
Ben took the children to a neighbor’s house as paramedics continued trying to save Michelle.
Roughly 30 minutes later, he received the devastating news that his wife was dead.
“The paramedics came downstairs and said there’s been a catastrophic incident and that she’d passed away,” he recalled.
Ben said he then remained inside the house for another two hours waiting for the coroner while Michelle’s body was still upstairs.
The tragedy has shattered the family.
Ben says he has since lost his job and been diagnosed with PTSD as he struggles to cope with his wife’s death.
He also cannot stop wondering whether a faster ambulance response could have saved her.
“I’ve lost my wife, lost my job, been diagnosed with PTSD, and if they were here in 20 minutes, she could have survived,” he said.
The East of England Ambulance Service has apologized to the family and acknowledged that its response fell short of expected standards.
The service said there were delays in transferring the case between the 111 and 999 systems, while ambulance crews were also facing intense pressure and hospital handover delays at the time.
“Our thoughts remain with Mr. Roberts and his family following the death of his wife, Michelle, in October 2024,” a spokesperson said.
The ambulance service said it conducted a full patient-safety review and has continued working with hospitals to reduce delays and improve response times for the most serious emergencies.
But for Ben and his five children, the changes come after an unimaginable loss — and a haunting question over whether Michelle might have survived if help had arrived sooner.
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